The Magic Words: Thank You, Sorry And Please
The magic words are part of that whole that defines a good education and good role models. This is why teaching them to your little ones will make them respectful and admirable children. However, the undertaking requires great dedication, it is not easy. Today we talk about how to incorporate words such as: thank you, sorry, please, permission, etc.
The importance of magic words
Without a doubt, being told “thank you”, “good morning”, “sorry” and “please” from a person completely changes the perception you have of them. This is equally important in children because it increases the level of socialization and makes them adapt better to the environment around them.
This will allow them to interact effectively with their peers, creating positive reactions and better inclusion in the social context.
How to teach the little ones magic words
The best way to teach your child magic words is by example. Include them in your daily vocabulary at home, with family members, neighbors, and with the baby himself. There are also other techniques that stimulate the frequent use of these words, here are a few.
Teach him the meaning of the words
If the child is already of a certain age you can try to explain to him the use of modals; for example:
- Thanks: denotes appreciation of someone else’s generosity. Teaching him to say this little word will make him value the efforts of others.
- Please: Teach your little one to ask respectfully. It recognizes the right of others to share with education.
- Sorry: Apologizing helps your little one recognize their mistakes and correct their actions.
- Good morning. Greeting everyone indicates that all people deserve fair and loving treatment.
Entertain him by learning
Including magic words in your little one’s vocabulary doesn’t have to be a tedious task. Choose songs, games, or stories that incorporate the relationship between good ways and the positive consequences of them. Some stories that may be useful to you are: The Grouchy Wizard, The Magic Tree or The Nails and Love.
Stimulate good manners with their friends
The child’s first contact with peers takes place at the nursery, where he finds himself living with other children and the teachers. Teach him to say hello when he arrives, to ask for toys please, and to apologize when he is wrong.
Have patience
Incorporating magical offspring into your little one’s vocabulary requires patience, persistence, and dedication. Repeat them often until action turns into habit. A good option is to ask: “What is the magic word?”. This way the little one will remember it.
Do practice sessions and set realistic goals
Teach the child that every time he uses polite words, he will make the other person feel good. Practice how to greet a neighbor, how to thank and apologize. This will prepare him for the challenge.
Don’t force learning
During this process, we advise you not to adopt the following behaviors:
- Don’t humiliate your little one by forcing him to say hello if he’s ashamed. The process is different for each child and can take a while if the little one is particularly shy.
- Don’t negotiate with the little one to make him polite. He must learn it without expecting anything in return.
- Don’t tell others what happens to your little one as he learns this process.
Explain to him the positive effect of being polite
Teach him the relationship between his actions and the consequences of them. For example, a good option would be to tell him: “How happy Grandma was when you thanked her.” Recognizing and appreciating good behavior will incentivize him to do better and better.
In conclusion, having respectful and polite children is possible with patience, dedication and a lot of effort. Praise him when he behaves well, keep an eye on negative friendships and positively reinforce learning in him. Over time, the magic words will turn into life opportunities.
